If you had to compare your love for your significant other to a fire, which would it be? Would it be like a dangerous and unpredictable wildfire or a stable and nurturing hearth fire?
The main character, Lucy, in the book I'm currently reading, The Light We Lost, is finding it really difficult to get over the breakup of her last relationship. For months after breaking up with Gabe, Lucy continues to think about him, and she constantly compares him to her prospective dates.
Obviously, the fact that they broke up meant something was wrong in their relationship. And while others looking in from the outside can clearly see that and maybe even tell Lucy to move on and don't look back, if you're like Lucy...in the midst of it...it may be hard to do.
I'm only halfway through this book, and Lucy's found another love. Darren is good for her, he really loves her, but as you may have guessed, he is very unlike Gabe. And even though this new love is "safe" and is going well, Lucy can't help but wonder if she's making the right choice.
So this book got me thinking. What kind of relationships are you most attracted to? Are you a wildfire type where the relationship is powerful and compelling with the potential for hurt before you realize it? Or are you most comfortable in relationships that are stable, cozy and nourishing like a hearth fire? I'm definitely for the latter!
Lately I've been choosing books that have just been "okay," but this is the kinda book I know I will finish in a couple of days. I can't wait to see how it turns out!
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