Would You?

So.  I witnessed something a while ago that I've contemplated writing about. But now that there's been some distance between said event and now...why not.

Here's the scenario.

Would You Travel Alone?

I've eaten alone. Gone to the movies alone. I've even ran the world's largest 10K in the world...alone. But this I have never done.

So. Would you? Travel alone?

And I don't just mean getting on a plane alone and then meeting friends or family at your destination. I mean getting on a plane solo, traveling to a new state or some exotic new country...by yourself...and spending the remainder of that trip by yourself?

Could you do it? Would you?

Would You Split the Check?

Olazzo's Shrimp and Crab Rosé

When dining out with friends, and it comes time to paying the bill, would you split the tab? Or, would you request separate checks?

What if someone orders significantly more than you? What if their party is larger than yours? Is it fair to go halfsies on a bill when you didn't technically eat half the food?

The Not so Forbidden Fruit

So. I was in the grocery store earlier today enjoying some me time, and shopping for apples when another customer walked up next to me, chose an apple, and casually bit into it!

It totally caught me by surprise and made me chuckle! I have never seen anyone do that. Was he just "testing" it to make sure it met his standards? Was he just hungry and decided he couldn't wait til check-out? I have no idea! He grabbed a few more apples and kept it moving as if this was something he normally did.

I have to admit, I have on many occasions, taken one single grape and tasted it to make sure the whole bunch was sweet enough to buy, but I have never bitten into an apple, banana, or any other fruit...no matter the reason. And you might be thinking, if I did that to a grape, why not another fruit?

So this strange incident made me wonder...would you, have you just tasted any fruit or anything else in a grocery store without first paying for it?

Would You Dine Alone?

Panera Bread's Thai chicken salad and creamy tomato soup

Would you dine alone?

In my 20's and early 30's, I hated to eat alone and wouldn't do so voluntarily. Now in my 40's, I don't mind it a bit. There's something empowering and confident about dining solo.

Earlier today I had some rare "me time," and I treasured every moment.  I had an early morning appointment at the hair salon. The drive in the car was very peaceful and tranquil. I've said before that after working all week with children, the calm and quiet are a welcomed treat.  After my hair appointment with Creative Director, Rebecca at Toni&Guy, which included a blissful head massage and a "flawless" blow out, I casually wandered the mall browsing through a few stores. I did so at my leisure with no distractions or restrictions. If you're the mom of a young child, you can understand how being at the mall alone is refreshing. In fact, in the last five years, I've considered it a treat just to go grocery shopping alone. Ha! Can you relate?

On the way home, I was starving, so I stopped at Panera Bread for lunch. Alone. It was lovely. I ate in solitude and took my time. Not the usual 20 minutes I get at school, where you literally have to do what I call, "bite and swallow"!  I treated myself to some hazelnut coffee too, and the best part about eating solo...people watching! Just ask The Hubs. It's a favorite hobby of mine!

After my sequestration, I was ready to head home and see my two favorite guys. That's what "me time" does.  It gives you time to yourself, to do what makes you happy, to sort out your feelings and emotions, to just have time to think and process. It brings you peace of mind so that when you are around others, you can be a happier you!

So.  Back to my question...would you dine alone?